Showing posts with label God. Show all posts
Showing posts with label God. Show all posts

Sunday, June 30, 2013

Fear Factor Part 4: Faith Over Fear




I have come to the last entry in my series on fear, and this exercise has been a great blessing to me. I’ve been able to rethink my own ideology and habits, and I’ve received feedback that these posts have helped others. Thanks for the encouragement to keep things going. Without further ado, let’s get into the topic of placing your faith above your fear.

First, let’s define faith. You may know it as a belief in something for which there is no proof, a commitment to God’s teaching or a strong belief in something or someone. I like to define it as the substance of things hoped for and the evidence of things not seen. Yes, I took that straight from the Bible (Hebrews 11:1). For me, this definition has exemplified the process of believing in something even when everything else says, “There’s no way that can happen.”

I used to believe I had strong faith until it was truly, and I mean truly, tested. I’m talking about the kind of test that has you praying on your knees day in and day out, crying ‘til there are no more tears, angry in your waiting, wanting with all of your being to get it right and seeing nothing but what’s wrong. I’m also talking about that point when all that’s left is your weary, battered and humbled self. When you’ve been tested like that and you can still hear that voice that tells you to keep going, then you’ve truly experienced faith.

I challenge you to tap into that faith and place it above fear. Hold onto that pole during the storm and say, “I won’t let go!” Remember what you’re working toward and stop looking back—your fear is there and it’s waiting for your return, but your faith is right next to you. Your faith wants to wrap its arms around you and take you to the next step where hope is waiting. So keep walking.

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Sunday, June 23, 2013

Fear Factor Part 3: Regaining Focus

For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” Jeremiah 29:11

I wrote this scripture on the board of my daughter’s hospital room a year-and-a-half ago. Day after day, it reminded me of God’s promises. There was a purpose for her life—a blueprint, if you will—that went far beyond what my husband and I could see or imagine. It told me that our micropreemie—weighing less than two pounds—would not only be fine, she would also have a phenomenal story to tell and a long life. I believed that deep in my heart.

For 93 days I read that scripture, recited it aloud and meditated on it. The experience was overwhelming and brought with it complicated machines, regular testing, surgeries, setbacks followed by victories and victories followed by setbacks.  Sometimes leaning on the scripture I mentioned became completely arduous. Our daughter’s time in the hospital became a testimony for what God can do even when circumstances seem bigger than life. Today she is healthy and shows no signs of her difficult beginnings, but there were moments of weakness and weariness in our circumstances that caused us to lose focus on what we believed in.

It is those “moments” that I’d like to explore briefly. At some point in your life, you have probably experienced some sort of distraction that interfered with a goal. Some distractions are unavoidable situations of life. Others are meant for your personal growth …if only you don’t get stuck. It’s easy to get stuck in any number of circumstances. For example you can get:

·         Stuck in not having the money

·         Stuck in not having the time

·         Stuck in not having the courage

·         Stuck in not having the resources

·         Stuck in not having the support

But if there were the chance that you’d get out of that rut that’s trapping you from moving forward, would you? Would you be willing to commit to the focus you lacked or gave up? Would you be willing to believe in a higher plan for your prosperity, hope and future? If your answer is yes to any of these questions, then congratulations! You’ve made the first step toward discovering (or rediscovering) your focus.

So what’s my advice? Well, think of this commitment to focus as a road trip. Know your starting point and your end point. Know when it’s time to gas up and eat. Know what you need to take with you and who should be riding shotgun. Decide where you will stop along the way and set a time for getting back on the road. And oh yeah, don’t spend time looking in the rear view mirror. You can’t make the trip if you’re constantly looking at what you left so long ago.
 
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Friday, May 24, 2013

I'm Glad God Is Not One of Us


If you’re a fan of “The Voice,” you probably remember when Sarah Simmons gave a gritty rendition of “One of Us” during this year’s blind auditions. A cover of the song was featured in Tyler Perry’s 2005 hit “Diary of a Mad Black Woman” and even Dr. Evil sang it in “Austin Powers: The Spy Who Shagged Me” in 1999. The song has gained in popularity both on the billboards and in parodies since Joan Osborne released it 13 years ago.

 
The song’s lyrics pose various questions that implore the listener to consider life if God were just a regular person—one made of flesh and blood; one with flaws and issues; one who walks in plain sight and blends in with the crowd. Some of those questions (paraphrased) are:
  • What would His name be?
  • Would seeing Him mean you’d have to believe in Jesus?
  • What is the one question you’d ask Him?
 

What If God Were One of Us?

“One of Us” represents a desire to connect with a God who does not just look down from heaven but who is close to us and tangible. The thought of God being nearby is comforting, especially when you consider how vulnerable we are at the times when we need Him most. At some point, most people have asked God “Why?” as they’ve faced turmoil, confusion and chaos. They’ve sent up their questions, hoping for an audible response. Today, as the nation experiences international unrest with North Korea, recovers from the fear-mongering that tarnished last month’s Boston Marathon bombing and watches the aftermath of the devastating tornados that pummeled Oklahoma, people look to God for answers.

 
This is nothing new. Even Moses wanted to see God’s face and felt blessed to be in his presence. Still, this faithful servant was only able to see God’s back, because seeing the magnificence of God’s face would have killed him (Exodus 33:23). Impending death aside, most people might take comfort in the idea of God walking among us as his Son did. However, I, for one, am grateful that God is not one of us. Surprised? Keep reading, to find out why.
 

Five Reasons I’m Glad God Is Not One of Us

 
1.    We say, “It's impossible!” God says “All things are possible for those who believe in Me” (Matthew 19:26).
2.    We break promises. God keeps His promises (Deuteronomy 7:9).
3.    We forgive (sometimes), but we don't forget. God has compassion, tramples our sins and throws them into the depths of the ocean (Micah 7:19).
4.    We operate in fear. God does not give us the spirit of fear; He gives us power, love and self-discipline (2 Timothy 1:7).
5.    We cast the broken aside. God does not see us as man sees us and He use us, even in our brokenness.

 
Using a Broken Vessel

It is Point Number 5—regarding our brokenness—that gets the focus for the rest of this post because it starts to reveal the rationale behind the title of my novel, Broken Vessels. Can you imagine what life would be like if God saw us in our brokenness as man sees us—defeated, empty and insignificant? If God were like man, He would probably be quick to dismiss us. He might stop returning phone calls when we’re going through hard times or talk about us behind our backs when we make mistakes. He might lie to our faces, telling us He stands behind us while washing His hands of anything to do with us. He might even hold a grudge for the promises we’ve made to Him but broken.
 

The fact that God doesn’t see us as man does is not only an underlying theme of Broken Vessels; it’s what actually inspired the title of the book. Broken Vessels shows both the lengths Trinity will go through to hide her defects and God’s desire to use her just as she is. It’s at this crossroads where I think so many people get hung up. Here’s what I mean: Like Trinity (the protagonist in the story), people hesitate to go to God because “just as they are” is fragile, faulty and damaged. “Just as they are” is embarrassing and needs improvement. “Just as they are” is messy and unworthy of a blessing. Who hasn’t been caught in up in his own negative thoughts of inferiority? I’ve learned from my own battles with self-doubt that your thoughts have the power to propel you or imprison you. If you become a prisoner to those thoughts, you’ll never realize God’s full potential for you.

 
Half Full, but Fully Valuable

Here’s another story to drive my point home: I recently read a tale about a water bearer in India. Each day for two years, he carried two large pots—one on each end of a pole. He’d go to a faraway stream and fill the pots with water, then carry them back to the master’s house, balancing the pole across his shoulders. One of the pots was perfect and always delivered a full portion of water, but the other pot was cracked and water trickled from the leak. By the time the water bearer reached the master’s house, the cracked pot was only half full. Frustrated and embarrassed, the cracked pot apologized to the water bearer for not meeting expectations. The water bearer responded that the pot had no need to apologize because it, too, had a purpose. The water bearer asked if the pot had seen the beautiful flowers that lined the path they took each day. He explained that he’d planted flower seeds along that path, then purposely positioned the cracked pot on that side of the path to water the seeds. Those flowers bloomed and the water bearer picked them and used them to decorate his master’s house.

 
I think this is the perfect example of what God can do with us through our brokenness, if we allow Him to. Despite our flaws, we—like the cracked pot and like Trinity—can become useful vessels. We can make a real difference in someone else’s life if we’re willing to find out just how valuable a broken vessel can be.

 
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